Okay, I’ll admit it. Sometimes, I can be a debbie downer. I can’t help it.
Part of it is in my blood. My grandma was a rather negative gal. But let’s face it, she grew up in the depression era, so I think she had permission.
My family and I moved back home to Nashville almost 2 years ago. I’ve made great strides in my negative attitude. One of the greatest things that helped was ceasing to watch the news. I used to be a FoxNews junkie, and then I would flip over to CNN to see what they were saying, followed by checking their websites.
All they would do is yell and fight and bicker – and I have to tell you, it rubs off on you. I’d watch it while I was getting ready, and then I’d listen to it on my XM radio in the car. When I wasn’t listening to that on the radio, I’d listen to ESPN news or talk – and again, on my afternoon drive home, I’d catch the PTI (Pardon the Interruption) crew, and that show is all about yelling at each other.
Its so easy for this attitude to rub off on you, and sadly enter all aspects of your life. We get short tempered with our spouses, our children, our friends, our church family, our neighbors, the people driving next to us on the road – and before long its out of control!
So for those of you who have been affected by my negative attitude that creeps out every once in a while, I’m sorry. Being around negativity is like being around someone who smokes – you may not be smoking, but you smell like it later on. You may not be negative at the time, but chances are it’ll put you in a sour mood.
There’s really no excuse for me ever being negative. I have a
1. Wonderful wife who still puts up with me
2. A beautiful little girl who still loves to cuddle with her daddy
3. Super awesome parents, family, and friends who would do anything for me
4. The absolute best church family any Christian or Minister could ever ask for
5. A spectacular home that is more than we ever could have imagined
6. 2 paid off vehicles that are in top notch running condition
7. Health – me and my family have no major problems
8. More than enough food to eat every single day
Well, you get my drift. I’ve been blessed, and instead of letting things get me down, I’m going to focus on the blessings in Christ that I have.
Next time you put something on Facebook – ask yourself, “Is this building others up?” Such as political statements, money statements, “i’m raising my family better than you” comments, and so on and so forth.
Next time you have a conversation with someone, be positive. If the other people in your conversation bring up gossip, negativity, or comments about how they are not satisfied with something going on at work, home, or church – try to change the subject to something more positive, or if that doesn’t work, dismiss yourself from the conversation.
Negativity is a poison, one that we all partake of, but one we need to fight against. May God bless us all with a positive spirit and attitude…INCLUDING ME!!