Me and my gals 





We spent the day in Clearwater and had a blast!

100,000



Well, I’ve ticked over to 100k on my 2006 Honda Civic. That’s just breaking it in, right?

The TRUE Meaning of Forgiveness – An Ultimate Example

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By now, you’ve probably heard of Mo’Ne Davis and her stunning rise to stardom as the pitcher for a little league team in the world series.  Recently, a young man who played baseball for Bloomsburg University, made a statement on Twitter that is too vulgar to repeat on a Christian blog, but needless to say, you would be picking your jaw of the floor after reading what he stated.

The university promptly kicked Joey Casselberry, the player in question, off the team.

Mo’Ne had every right to be upset.  What was said about her shouldn’t be said about anyone, much less a teenager.

But do you know what she did?  She wrote a letter to the university, and it says this:

Dear Dr. Soltz (the President of the university),

I am writing about the Tweet sent out by your baseball player, Joey Casselberry, and his dismissal from the team because of it. While I admit I was pretty hurt when I read his comments, I felt sad that he was dismissed from the team. As many people know, my dream is to play college basketball and maybe even professionally. I know how much hard work and dedication it will take to get there, and to have that dream taken away would be heartbreaking.  I am sure Joey Casselberry has worked very hard to get where he is and dreams of playing in the major leagues. For this reason, I’m asking you to please allow him back on the team so that he can continue to chase his dream. He made one dumb mistake. I’m sure he would go back and change it if he could. We all make mistakes and deserve to be forgiven. I hope you will give him a second chance and allow him to play.

Thanks.
Mo’Ne Davis

You know what, I’ve made dumb mistakes before.  We all have done things that we shouldn’t have done.  I find it refreshing to see someone who not only forgave the offender, but came to the defense of the defender.  What a lesson to learn from a 13 year old girl.

A lot of us may say we forgive someone, but we want their heads for what they did to us.  Forgiveness accompanied with actions such as that is not real forgiveness.  What if Jesus said “Father, please forgive them, for they don’t know what they’re doing,” but then followed that with “But in 3 days when I rise from the dead, I’m going to make sure each person that mocked me, beat me, spit on me, or drove a nail in my hands – is dealt with in a swift and proper way.”

We say things like “Well, in the business world, if this happened…” – but you know what?  I don’t think Jesus meant “Forgive others, but then treat them like the business world would treat them.”

Maybe we all need to learn a lesson from Mo’Ne.  If someone says their sorry, no matter how vile or tame their words may be – we forgive, and truly forgive, and move on.  No need to be like the Queen of Hearts with a “Off with their heads” mentality.

Mo’ne Davis

Resurrection Day



Today, Joel Jaroch decided to dedicate his life to God, being baptized for the remission of his sins.  His father took his confession after an emotional charge to the family at Northwest Tampa to continue being the influence for young people today. I was so moved by his words. 



Joel embracing his father, Mike, as he begins a new life as a Christian. 



All the children came in from children’s worship time to witness the joyous event!!





Quaker “Steak” and Lube



Today I met a dear friend, Terry Reeves, for lunch. He told me “hey I know this great wings place…”

Quaker Steak and Lube, while not a place I would have ever chosen on my own, in a word, AMAZING!  

Thanks for lunch Terry. It was great. And it was great to see you again!  Looking forward to many more lunches in the future!

Sunrise…Sunset



I’ve heard about the Tampa sunsets. I know the setting isn’t the prettiest, but I’m starting to see what the fuss is all about. (And no, I was not driving!)

Happiness is…

Moving to a new town and finding the local Mexican food dive, and it’s good. Here’s to Mexican food, Tampa!



Follow Me

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Are you on Twitter?  I’ve been a twitterer for a while now, but seemingly always forget about it.  I’m trying to get more involved with that form of social media.  I have all my blog posts that automatically post to my twitter feed, but I oft forget to update my “Status” or whatever its called there.

If you’re on Twitter – you can find me at https://twitter.com/lanewidick and click on the “Follow” button to join me in my Twitter journey.

Also, if you’d like you can “Friend” me on Facebook.  I check it more often.  You can send me a request there at https://www.facebook.com/lane.widick

Looking forward to it!